Moral Hazard

In economic theory, moral hazard is a situation in which a party insulated from risk behaves differently from how it would behave if it were fully exposed to the risk.  In short, since it’s not your money (or you’re not held accountable for your actions), you might take more risks.

Moral hazard arises because an individual or institution does not take the full consequences and responsibilities of its actions, and therefore has a tendency to act less carefully than it otherwise would, leaving another party to hold some responsibility for the consequences of those actions. For example, a person with insurance against automobile theft may be less cautious about locking his or her car, because the negative consequences of vehicle theft are (partially) the responsibility of the insurance company.

Other examples: Unemployment benefits, Welfare, Disability insurance, Warranties, Gov’t bailouts (why should I look for a job or not lend to this person with no credit history to buy a house when the US Gov’t will pay me or will bail us out).

Moral Hazard of Marriage
Promise to endure all things for the sake of your spouse and you’re giving him/her a free pass to do what he wants.

Two sides of Moral Hazard:
1) a world where you let yourself go completely, you assume your spouse will pick up your socks, will always bail you out, and will never, ever abandon you.  You don’t bother showing affection (take for spouse for granted) and you settle into a comfortable indifference.
2) Paranoia.  You never let down your guard, you clean up after yourself, and you follow your spouse’s rules to the letter.  You dote, you second-guess, you never provoke.  You avoid conflict entirely, out of fear that the minute you bring up tough topics your spouse will shut down the marriage and walk away.

You wouldn’t want a marriage devoid of moral hazard, on the other hand you need to know you can mess up from time to time and that your spouse won’t quit on you.  Some moral hazard is key the functioning of a marriage, but you don’t want it ruling your life.  Goal is to be in the middle, a safe harbor, not a safety net.

• Recommended reading:  “Spousonomics: Using Economics to Master Love, Marriage and Dirty Dishes” (Paula Szuchman, Jenny Anderson. Random House)